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I’ve realized that I am someone who jumps all in, guns blazing with *everything* I do
I’ll give some examples.
Food- I’ve often believed I have to eat perfectly ALL the time or I’m a failure and won’t reach my goals
I’ve realized that I am someone who jumps all in, guns blazing with *everything* I do
I’ll give some examples.
Food- I’ve often believed I have to eat perfectly ALL the time or I’m a failure and won’t reach my goals
Workouts- I have to lift the heaviest weight for the most reps as fast as I can or I won’t see progress. The more the better, always.
Catholicism- heck I felt the need to discern religious life before even being confirmed
Catholicism- heck I felt the need to discern religious life before even being confirmed
I always want to be doing the most, accomplishing it all, perfectly without a slip up
And this all or nothing mentality has allowed me to fail (many times)
In the past year, I’ve worked to rewire my brain in a lot of ways.
And this all or nothing mentality has allowed me to fail (many times)
In the past year, I’ve worked to rewire my brain in a lot of ways.
Food- I stopped tracking food for awhile, ate what I wanted and have come back to eating mostly whole, nutrient dense foods
Workouts- I took ALL the rest days. Dropped weight, hammered technique, slowed it all down.
Workouts- I took ALL the rest days. Dropped weight, hammered technique, slowed it all down.
Catholicism- I literally walked away. I left for a year.
But now... I love the process. I love the day in and day out process. The slowness of knowing that if I consistently put in work each day, I will reach the goal.
But now... I love the process. I love the day in and day out process. The slowness of knowing that if I consistently put in work each day, I will reach the goal.
Not only will I reach the goal, I will have formed very solid habits in the process.... habits that I can carry throughout the rest of my life.
See, there is no “end” destination. The journey, the process, the daily work... that’s the goal.
See, there is no “end” destination. The journey, the process, the daily work... that’s the goal.
Allowing my habits to shape my life and create a life I truly love and can live forever, that’s the goal.
This is the biggggggest mental shift and the thing I’m most proud of in 2020.
This is the biggggggest mental shift and the thing I’m most proud of in 2020.
Health (physical, mental, spiritual), has no end. There is no timeline to perfect your health in... it’s life. A continuum that you’ll be on until you die. Don’t rush, enjoy the process.