Never stop flirting
- He gets some followers
Then loses his charisma, puts in less effort, switches to a weird know it all tone
- He gets into a relationship
Then charm goes away, puts in low effort
His positive gains are temporary, because his positive actions are temporary
- He gets some followers
Then loses his charisma, puts in less effort, switches to a weird know it all tone
- He gets into a relationship
Then charm goes away, puts in low effort
His positive gains are temporary, because his positive actions are temporary
I've heard people say "the universe will test you"
it'll test to see if you really about that life
ultimately seeing DO YOU BELONG:
does a result make you change your behavior? is this unfamiliar to you?
if yes, you don't belong
you will be kicked out & will lose the result
it'll test to see if you really about that life
ultimately seeing DO YOU BELONG:
does a result make you change your behavior? is this unfamiliar to you?
if yes, you don't belong
you will be kicked out & will lose the result
if you freak out making $100,000, then go flexing on IG like 'you made it'
Clearly $100,000 is a big deal to you
You don't belong
You'll get kicked out
You'll lose it & go right back to where you belong
We ALWAYS find a way back to what we THINK we deserve
Clearly $100,000 is a big deal to you
You don't belong
You'll get kicked out
You'll lose it & go right back to where you belong
We ALWAYS find a way back to what we THINK we deserve
^ this is why 70% of lottery winners go broke within 3 years
WE ALWAYS return to the familiar
People pursue THINGS that reflect an IDENTITY
The relationship, the money, the followers, etc
Things are a reflection of the IDENTITY
Change the identity & the things will change
WE ALWAYS return to the familiar
People pursue THINGS that reflect an IDENTITY
The relationship, the money, the followers, etc
Things are a reflection of the IDENTITY
Change the identity & the things will change
"easy come easy go"
This phrase (in my opinion) is because of identity
If you make $900/month for 5 years
Then make $70,000 in 1 month
Your habits, beliefs, routines, mind, and identity are still at $900/month
You'll go right back down to that
(my own personal experience)
This phrase (in my opinion) is because of identity
If you make $900/month for 5 years
Then make $70,000 in 1 month
Your habits, beliefs, routines, mind, and identity are still at $900/month
You'll go right back down to that
(my own personal experience)
compare that to
$900/month gradually progressing
Month 1 of new venture: $1700/month
Month 2: $2400/month
Month 3: $2900
Month 4: $3300
Month 5: $3700
Month 6: $4100
Month 7: $3900
Month 8: $5000
Month 9: $5400
Month 10: $6000
Month 11: $6500
Month 12: $8100
$900/month gradually progressing
Month 1 of new venture: $1700/month
Month 2: $2400/month
Month 3: $2900
Month 4: $3300
Month 5: $3700
Month 6: $4100
Month 7: $3900
Month 8: $5000
Month 9: $5400
Month 10: $6000
Month 11: $6500
Month 12: $8100
Because progress is subtle, there is no contrast or major difference feeling unfamiliar
Gradually raising the baseline
Like increasing your bench
You can't handle 350 with a max of 250
Gradual progression is how to become familiar with 350
250, 260, 275, 285, 295...
Gradually raising the baseline
Like increasing your bench
You can't handle 350 with a max of 250
Gradual progression is how to become familiar with 350
250, 260, 275, 285, 295...
Just like a max bench of 350 can't handle & doesn't belong benching 250
A max income of $1000/month
Can't handle & doesn't belong making $10,000/month
If by fluke & force it's achieved in a fast way
It'll likely vanish & return back to the familiar of around $1000/month
A max income of $1000/month
Can't handle & doesn't belong making $10,000/month
If by fluke & force it's achieved in a fast way
It'll likely vanish & return back to the familiar of around $1000/month
some exceptions we sell ourselves short
exposure reveals you're totally capable & belong there
ex - was sluggish in gym for a few weeks
last time friend saw me I was repping 315
I hadn't ATTEMPTED more than 275 in weeks
He said try 315
I was expecting 0-1 reps
Got 6 reps
exposure reveals you're totally capable & belong there
ex - was sluggish in gym for a few weeks
last time friend saw me I was repping 315
I hadn't ATTEMPTED more than 275 in weeks
He said try 315
I was expecting 0-1 reps
Got 6 reps