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I guess it shouldn't be a surprise to see how many fake doms/subs out there. Mostly are young teens exploring their sexuality. The sad part is the lack of guidance and education towards sexuality, especially in this modern and progressive era.
The problems with these young teens exploring their sexuality is their teenage arrogance. I've been there, it's no fun when someone tell you what to do or how. You want to learn by your mistake, but then some mistakes are just too fatal to endure.
It might not always be physical. Some risks are also mental and emotional. They get all brave to face the risk but then they also the ones who get so fragile over trust issues. Have they learned anything yet tho? Mostly haven't.
To learn takes humility, one should be able to lower themselves infront of knowledge regardless who or how that knowledge reach you. I try to teach myself humility and am still trying to learn more about it. Ego is a huge wall need to be torn apart before we are able to learn.
Most of these younlings dont understand humility. I dont blame them, I've been in their shoes before. I've been arrogant and prideful. Only when I realized I'm not getting anywhere by being arrogant and prideful, I start to realize humility is the way to progress.
Those who are prideful of their pretty faces, silk mannequin skin, tempting shape of ass, perfect abs, pointy nose; they will have a hard time to learn if they rely on these vanities.
Mind over body. Train your mind into something you are, a Dominant or a submissive.
Mind over body. Train your mind into something you are, a Dominant or a submissive.
There is a saying in the BDSM world, that you will first need to be broken apart before you can be built all over again into someone new and better. At your lowest point. That is where you can start rebuild yourself from the ground up.
One of a Dominant's responsibility is to rebuild his submissive after he broke her apart during a scene. That's why we give aftercare, that's how we build intimacy and connection, that's how the dynamic work for the Dominant and the submissive.
