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Cis men you need to check your fellow cis dudes.
Specifically if yr cis bro says he showed a girl his dick
You need to say "Did you ask for permission first?"
Before engaging with the rest of the conversation.
Fucking try it.
Specifically if yr cis bro says he showed a girl his dick
You need to say "Did you ask for permission first?"
Before engaging with the rest of the conversation.
Fucking try it.
Because apparently cis dudes think
an apology for sending an unsolicited dick pic and deleting it
undoes the boundary violation of sending me a mediocre dick I had no interest in.
It doesn't.
an apology for sending an unsolicited dick pic and deleting it
undoes the boundary violation of sending me a mediocre dick I had no interest in.
It doesn't.
If anything it just shows me you're gonna sucker in anybody with less rigid boundaries
who doesn't realize your consent style is "violate and apologize
"
who doesn't realize your consent style is "violate and apologize
"
Furthermore
sex writers/workers say this all the time:
coming at us talking about sex and waving your genitals first thing
(without paying
or at least OFFERING to pay for subjecting me to yet another boner)
immediately guarantees you aren't gonna get to fuck us for free
sex writers/workers say this all the time:
coming at us talking about sex and waving your genitals first thing
(without paying
or at least OFFERING to pay for subjecting me to yet another boner)
immediately guarantees you aren't gonna get to fuck us for free
Like I might take your money if you listen worth a damn and pay me extra
Say, a consent violation fee for subjecting me to your junk I had no interest in.
But I'd never agree to meet you IRL for a sexy job or personal reasons.
Say, a consent violation fee for subjecting me to your junk I had no interest in.
But I'd never agree to meet you IRL for a sexy job or personal reasons.
Anybody who slid into my DMs that I sincerely wanna fuck on my own
only got me feeling that way by treating me like a person instead of a boner dispenser.
Meaning most of them didn't even talk about sex w/ me for days/weeks at first.
And certainly not discussing fucking me.
only got me feeling that way by treating me like a person instead of a boner dispenser.
Meaning most of them didn't even talk about sex w/ me for days/weeks at first.
And certainly not discussing fucking me.
I just wanna be clear guys, y'all ain't slick or master manipulators
if you think none of us know exactly what you're doing
when you're asking us about the kind of dicks we like
after less than 10 minutes of unrelated conversation and no payment for our time.
if you think none of us know exactly what you're doing
when you're asking us about the kind of dicks we like
after less than 10 minutes of unrelated conversation and no payment for our time.
Any time you ask about sexual details of my life, l
I can easily tell when you're pumping me for jerk-off material.
Except y'all usually suck at sexting too
which is why I make people pay me for sex work.
I can easily tell when you're pumping me for jerk-off material.
Except y'all usually suck at sexting too
which is why I make people pay me for sex work.
You jerking off to my experiences isn't hot or fun for me.
It's another Tuesday.
9/10 times a cis dude invites himself to jerk off over me without my interest
he could not dirty talk his way out of a flaming paper bag of dogshit on his pawpaw's porch.
It's another Tuesday.
9/10 times a cis dude invites himself to jerk off over me without my interest
he could not dirty talk his way out of a flaming paper bag of dogshit on his pawpaw's porch.
Which is why you pay or you leave.
If you send me a cock I don't want and didn't request I'm happy to invoice you.
Get good, guys, this is why all the people online rarely wanna date cis men anymore.
You can only coast so far on mediocrity and alloCisHet male privilege.
If you send me a cock I don't want and didn't request I'm happy to invoice you.
Get good, guys, this is why all the people online rarely wanna date cis men anymore.
You can only coast so far on mediocrity and alloCisHet male privilege.
Do less dick pic sending.
Do more real respect and self education and effort.
That's how you get dates, cis gents.
Treating the "object of your interest" like a person instead of a dating sim character.
Do more real respect and self education and effort.
That's how you get dates, cis gents.
Treating the "object of your interest" like a person instead of a dating sim character.
