Opened up about bad treatment from indies, and recent events have me needing to enforce boundaries again.
Ajey Pandey engaged in harmful & triggering behavior towards me & my partner last year, and then proceeded to "apologize" in a performative manner without my consent.
Ajey Pandey engaged in harmful & triggering behavior towards me & my partner last year, and then proceeded to "apologize" in a performative manner without my consent.
CW // Ben Flowers
The biggest offense Ajey commited was deliberately mentioning, to a mutual, how he wanted to "steal Ben Flowers' aesthetic" for himself for a game he was designing, knowing full well that Sin and I are primary victims of this abuser.
The biggest offense Ajey commited was deliberately mentioning, to a mutual, how he wanted to "steal Ben Flowers' aesthetic" for himself for a game he was designing, knowing full well that Sin and I are primary victims of this abuser.
There are other things, like his behaviour in Asians Represent, specifically towards my colleague Daniel Kwan. But should Daniel wish to speak about that, he will.
Ajey has systematically proved to me that everything he does is performative, and he only cares about himself.
Ajey has systematically proved to me that everything he does is performative, and he only cares about himself.
I am making this tweet so that I can protect my space. I would deeply appreciate it if people refrain mentioning Ajey or BOLT together with me or my projects. Moving forward, I don't wish to work with him in any capacity, or be included in in any project that he is a part of.
Do not try to convince me to give him or his projects a chance. Do not try to mediate between him and me.
If he later holds himself properly accountable for his bad behaviour, works on himself, and improves, then great. May he succeed far, far, far away from me and my partner.
If he later holds himself properly accountable for his bad behaviour, works on himself, and improves, then great. May he succeed far, far, far away from me and my partner.
I thought a long time about doing this, but I am increasingly getting tired of feeling abused, spoken over, and harmed while bad actors and problematic people get to do whatever they like, or lay low for a while so that they can crawl right back up again.
You may signal boost as you like.
Do not DM me "for the tea". If you're going to reach out, you may do so properly.
Do not DM me "for the tea". If you're going to reach out, you may do so properly.