I think a lot of people would like to believe that just because they didn’t personally ascend the Capitol steps, break glass, wave Confederate flags, and defecate in the halls
their years of votes and support played no role in Wednesday’s action whatsoever
their years of votes and support played no role in Wednesday’s action whatsoever
we talk a lot about healing and reconciliation
as if we can skip the important work of atonement first
(if you like, call it at-one-ment)
a lot of folks need to look in the mirror and ask:
is this me?
is this who I want to be?
and then maybe think about healing
as if we can skip the important work of atonement first
(if you like, call it at-one-ment)
a lot of folks need to look in the mirror and ask:
is this me?
is this who I want to be?
and then maybe think about healing
at the very least let’s not place the burden of forgiveness entirely upon the shoulders of those victimized by Trump and his enablers
without calling on Trump and his enablers to do some work of their own first
without calling on Trump and his enablers to do some work of their own first
and now please forgive me for a somewhat crude but I think useful analogy
telling someone they have an obligation to forgive is a little like telling someone they have to come during sex
a) that’s not how orgasms happen
b) that’s now you ruin the experience for everyone
telling someone they have an obligation to forgive is a little like telling someone they have to come during sex
a) that’s not how orgasms happen
b) that’s now you ruin the experience for everyone
if you’re serious about the orgasm, you do the work on your end to create the kinds of conditions that allow it to happen
things like mutuality, respect, and of course consent
forgiveness is not anyone’s right nor is it something we can or ought to demand
it takes hard work
things like mutuality, respect, and of course consent
forgiveness is not anyone’s right nor is it something we can or ought to demand
it takes hard work