I started swiping on Tinder again.
Doesn't seem much has changed.
It's just a moment of weakness though.
I know it'll just take my life backwards if I start meeting up with women again.
Current profile:
Doesn't seem much has changed.
It's just a moment of weakness though.
I know it'll just take my life backwards if I start meeting up with women again.
Current profile:
I'm not privy to Tinder's algorithm, but here's a theory on how to get more matches:
Stop swiping right indiscriminately
She has a picture of a cartoon character
Blurry photo?
Too far from you?
Swipe left.
I firmly believe you're rewarded if you actually have standards.

She has a picture of a cartoon character
Blurry photo?
Too far from you?
Swipe left.
I firmly believe you're rewarded if you actually have standards.

The advantage of having actually slept with women on Tinder is that I learn very quickly to recognize with accuracy which ones will lead to the bedroom and which ones won't.
I unmatch, and in cases of spam I also report.
Do that.

No, you don't have so many matches that you can't take the time to type out her name.
Don't be bot-like and spam a bunch of identical openers.
Address her by her name.
That alone puts your above 90% of guys.

For men in online dating, the rule is, the less said, the better.
Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of, well, courtship.
Keep it very short but still differentiate.
Speak like you understand the game.