I started swiping on Tinder again.

Doesn't seem much has changed.

It's just a moment of weakness though.

I know it'll just take my life backwards if I start meeting up with women again.

Current profile:
I'm not privy to Tinder's algorithm, but here's a theory on how to get more matches:

๐Ÿ”ด Stop swiping right indiscriminately

She has a picture of a cartoon character

Blurry photo?

Too far from you?

Swipe left.

I firmly believe you're rewarded if you actually have standards.
๐Ÿ”ด Don't be afraid to unmatch with girls

The advantage of having actually slept with women on Tinder is that I learn very quickly to recognize with accuracy which ones will lead to the bedroom and which ones won't.

I unmatch, and in cases of spam I also report.

Do that.
๐Ÿ”ด Personalize your messages

No, you don't have so many matches that you can't take the time to type out her name.

Don't be bot-like and spam a bunch of identical openers.

Address her by her name.

That alone puts your above 90% of guys.
๐Ÿ”ด Don't antagonize people in your profile

For men in online dating, the rule is, the less said, the better.

Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of, well, courtship.

Keep it very short but still differentiate.

Speak like you understand the game.
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