I think I just had a kind of epiphany about why I’m struggling to have any conversations with anyone. Like as an Enneagram 5 it is so infuriating to see all the evidence & have it dismissed because of you FEEL like this theory with no evidence AT all is true.

I just read a really good thread about how to engage with relatives that are taken in and it’s all relationship and feeling and making certain they feel heard and my gut reaction is both yea that logically makes sense and

Like if I have to make you FEEL like something is true what am I even doing? What is this nonsense. I don’t even have enough 4wing apparently to put up with it.