This year, try and banish The idea that sex is a woman’s loss & a man’s gain.

That ridiculous mentality, that when you have sex with a lady, then the guy is gaining and the woman is losing needs to be ousted this year ... Bikonu.

In fact, let's say you had 3rounds of sex with a

a lady, it'll take about 64days for Full spermatogenesis to take place and the sperm cells to regenerate.

So na the guy deh even lose and not the lady.

But that's not my point.

All I'm saying is that we should normalise the fact that Sex is an act enjoyed by two consenting

consenting adults. Nobody used each other.

No deh behave like one Nama from Daura.

If you initially agree to part with cash after the act, na una Sabi.