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When I have the time, I’ll share a few things I’ve learned in the past couple days about men. Just lessons. The only thing that you should look out for is CONSISTENCY. Anything else, is a no and a somewhat red flag.
Okay now I have time. My run/walk was good and I did a lot of thinking on the way.
Lesson number 1:
Do not let Ghana men or any man shame you for talking to multiple guys in the talking stage. This is fact: I just moved home from the US after about 7 years. Yayy I finished a bsc and MBA and I’m glad.
Do not let Ghana men or any man shame you for talking to multiple guys in the talking stage. This is fact: I just moved home from the US after about 7 years. Yayy I finished a bsc and MBA and I’m glad.
If you can talk to up to 10 guys, do it. Chances are, only1/2 actually like you die you. The others may want to sleep with you or may not even care about you. You will know with time
Here’s what you shouldn’t do in the talking stage.
1. Do not reveal any of the guys to the other. If they happen to all know each other, that’s fine. All well and good. It is life. We all know each other through one person somewhere random.
2. It’s okay if you tell them that
1. Do not reveal any of the guys to the other. If they happen to all know each other, that’s fine. All well and good. It is life. We all know each other through one person somewhere random.
2. It’s okay if you tell them that
You’re getting to know other guys. It is completely fine. However, you are NOT at liberty to reveal any of your convos to any of the other parties. If one asks for details, you decide if you want to say anything. If you decide to, I’d say just be honest. Otherwise, you’re not
Obliged to. Whatever is going on in chats with the others, is not any of them’s business.
2. Do not go to see any of them with the other, even if it is for a brief second. It could cost you.
3. The seemingly “interesting ,and mysterious “one with the great personality that
2. Do not go to see any of them with the other, even if it is for a brief second. It could cost you.
3. The seemingly “interesting ,and mysterious “one with the great personality that
Intrigues you, might actually be the inconsistent one.
The consistent one will stay consistent regardless even if it is the talking stage. Because men know if they like you or not within a short period. and you will know
Fortunately or unfortunately, girls actually fall for the one who shows signs of inconsistency. It kinda sucks. Even though they may like the consistent one in some way, they may much deeply want to engage with the inconsistent one.
Here’s why I say this. I may like to downplay myself but I am very intelligent. So I pick up on signs really quickly. For me, I’ve met a lot of guys since I came. No bragging or anything. No less than 10 different guys. But my attention span is short so I can only focus on 1 at
Most 2, at a time. And more often than not, even if I deny it, the one I focus on, usually isn’t the consistent one
. I may like both, but 1 will always hold a slightly higher place. It takes time but it happens z
. I may like both, but 1 will always hold a slightly higher place. It takes time but it happens z
Lesson 2:
If they make comments that hurt you, confront them and have them apologize. Chances are, they didn't notice . Or they just didn't want to realise what they said was wrong. Because Men prefer "logical reasoning" and are taught that women are
If they make comments that hurt you, confront them and have them apologize. Chances are, they didn't notice . Or they just didn't want to realise what they said was wrong. Because Men prefer "logical reasoning" and are taught that women are
"too emotional". For them, they prefer you put cogent arguments. Even though at that point in time, logic may not matter. You may just be hurt and expect them to realise that.
Lesson 3:
This is a HUGE one. Do not go and visit or see one, or any in the company of another. Not even for a brief second. Wait, did I say this already? Even if I did, it is for emphasis .
This is a HUGE one. Do not go and visit or see one, or any in the company of another. Not even for a brief second. Wait, did I say this already? Even if I did, it is for emphasis .
