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You know my favorite thing in the world is when people on the internet who don’t know other peoples history make assumptions about others. “If you had to endure what we’ve endured”. Here’s the funny thing, no one ever knows what anyone else has had to endure and
It’s pretty dumb to assume you know other peoples history. Maybe try thinking about someone other than yourself for once and stop assuming you know anyone’s history but your own or what they go through in present day. This isn’t the trauma olympics and just because
You’re being loud about your history doesn’t mean you have it “the worst”. There’s no such thing as the worst. And just because others aren’t screaming about their trauma history online doesn’t mean they don’t have one. I honestly really, really fucking hate
When I see people pull this shit. “If you had endured what we’ve endured”. Do you want a cookie? Is your goal to invalidate everyone else’s trauma because you think yours is “the worst”? Childhood trauma isn’t a dick measuring contest. I don’t talk about my childhood trauma
Because I personally don’t feel it’s anyone else’s business. So are you going to also try to pull that line of “if you endured what we endured” on me when you know absolutely nothing about my history? What exactly do you win by having it “the worst”? Is there a trophy?
The wild thing about peoples personal history is that it’s their personal history. You had childhood trauma and now have DID. Congrats. That’s how your brain chose to deal with it. I can assure you that there’s a kid out there with the exact same type of trauma history
As you who also grew up in a war torn area such as Syria and didn’t develop DID but has CPTSD instead because that’s how their brain chose to handle their circumstances. You gonna shit all over them too? Or do they get to win the apparent trauma olympics that
Is being played right now?
Just because you’re the loudest doesn’t make you right. It just means your mouth is the most open and you have the most hot air coming out. It doesn’t mean you’re the “most fucked up”.
Maybe take this same level of energy and put it in to your recovery
Just because you’re the loudest doesn’t make you right. It just means your mouth is the most open and you have the most hot air coming out. It doesn’t mean you’re the “most fucked up”.
Maybe take this same level of energy and put it in to your recovery
And see what magical things could happen because holy shit yo this is a dumpster fire on wheels and while you’re telling others to think about someone other than themselves for once, I have yet to see you think about anyone else at all. You’ve caused an ass load of harm
To a metric fuck ton of people, myself included, and I’ve only seen you try to find literally any way possible to make your personal behaviours be everyone’s responsibility but your own.
You cannot control what others do, yet you can control and take responsibility for
You cannot control what others do, yet you can control and take responsibility for
Your part in it and the harm you personally have caused. DBT would honestly work miracles for you if you learned and utilized the skills.
Maybe take a moment to think about the sheer amount of people you have victimized online because honestly it’s gross.
Maybe take a moment to think about the sheer amount of people you have victimized online because honestly it’s gross.
Bad things happened to you and people were mean, we get it. And nothing that has happened to you is an excuse for your behaviour. Me getting hit doesn’t excuse me hitting someone else.
Learn you a thing
Learn you a thing
