Top 4 Orgasm-Gap Reasons (from my DMs):

1. Traditional sex is centered around the male orgasm.
2. Most men put in very little effort to help a woman have an orgasm.
3. Men are misguided about what is pleasurable to women.
4. Women have a hard time speaking about it

1/4👇
Sex often goes like this:

A bit of foreplay, sometimes the guy will try to please you to warm you up. Usually 10 minutes or less. Then he will have sex with you until he orgasms. Usually, he doesn’t ask the woman if she’s orgasmed or even enjoyed it.

Me: I don't think so👇

2/4
In my experience, most men want to please their partner, 100%. In general, a woman's pleasure is on par with our own.

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3/4
It's important that we have goodwill towards our partners. It may feel like they are being selfish and mean. Usually, that's not the case.

Try turning around the way you perceive them, and watch what happens!

4/4
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