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A Guide to Staying Sane while Dating: by Yatharth, for Yatharth
Care about her.Give a damn about her, as a person, and there is nothing that can go wrong.
You will never lose sight of her. You will never lose sight of yourself. You will stay grounded, fiercely loving.
You have the meta-vibe. Trust it.
Feel your gut.It will guide you. It will bring out the flames where there was none.
What does she give a damn about? What do you? What would she get up on a stage for and cry to a million people about? Know her answers, because they are what matter.
Feel your heart.Feel the searing pain. It is not bad you are experiencing it. It will sizzle your belly into delicious, new being.
Feel the pain that comes up. Name it, grace it, give collective attention to it.
Honour it, because it is what is there to share.
No one turns down the chance to witness a human being. We just want the container to be held. For the pain to be laughed with. To be cried with. It’s how she’ll know you can take hers.
I’m phrasing this in the feminine, but taking applications from anyone. DMs are open.
Feel your balls.Never forget—she is a woman, and she can be loved. Stay open to the constant flirtation with the universe. At first, nothing is erotic, then something is, then it is everything.
Including her, including you, and including any way you are being.
Bring your head.You’re into her. You probably deeply respect her intellect.
Sometimes she doesn’t know. AAARGH. Feel as confident or articulate as the tech bros. Sometimes she does.
You respect her head, so deeply, intensely connect with it.
Do not for a second let yourself think mathematics is not aesthetics or the conceptual is not poetic.
@LapsusLima taught you this. Don’t forget.
@LapsusLima taught you this. Don’t forget.
To do all this is to relentlessly respect yourself. In the end, that’s what I want, for both of you.
You know what you want, you silly boi, and it is the exact moment when you are in love and awake for it, so go for it. Good luck. https://twitter.com/AskYatharth/status/1346271394879971329?s=20
The most unhideable fact of this thread is that I felt compelled to write it.
