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Offering free advice in how to talk to girls in a way that wonât weird them out or annoy them
You want a girl to think you are charming? Get her to talk about herself, and actually listen to her! Women do this to men all the time, you can try it the other way too
Worried that she wonât like your hobbies? Float them anywayâif she hates tabletop rpgs or knife collections or hiking or whatever itâs better to find out now.
But donât monopolize the conversation!
But donât monopolize the conversation!
Respect her religion and other things that are important to her! Do not neg her on those it **will not help you at all**
Playfully antagonizing someone works better if you actually have a friendship with themâyouâll want to save that for later encounters after you have established yourself as a decent person, or else sheâll just think youâre an asshole
Girls can tell if youâre trying to impress them. Itâs fine! But donât do anything 1) stupid 2) dangerous, or 3) mean. Drinking hot sauce straight? Weird, but fine. Confronting other men who look at her? Not good. Drinking way too much? Also not good.
Juggling napkins? Fine, cool even?
Juggling sharp knives? Please donât, everyone in the room is uncomfortable now.
Swing dancing skillfully? Cool!
Going into aerials without consulting her first? Terrifying! Donât do that!
Juggling sharp knives? Please donât, everyone in the room is uncomfortable now.
Swing dancing skillfully? Cool!
Going into aerials without consulting her first? Terrifying! Donât do that!
(Aerials are like, tossing your partner into the air. I donât do them theyâre too scary.)
If you are talking to girls, itâs just talking. Donât pretend to be someone youâre not, and donât take it personally if she doesnât want to date you! Move on and be chill and normal about it.
