🗣🗣 Proportional to income 🗣🗣 https://twitter.com/thabagladyy/status/1345750169233584129
And even then have the talk about safety nets/who needs what for rainy day/savings accounts because one thing i love Steph for is that she recognizes the many ways I have different needs given my family’s financials and my complete (and forced) financial independence from them
For example: i have life insurance now. I’ve never had life insurance. My life insurance is one thing we continue paying even when we are tight on money because my partner is kick ass and understands that life insurance is kind of a big deal to me.
Repeat after me! 50/50 is dumb as hell if you’re not coming from similar backgrounds and in an understanding and supportive relationship your partner/you should make the effort to even out the playing field. This is not just about bills but also making sure you’re both good in
The future if you need to part ways!!! And if that’s not a convo you feel comfortable having with your partner then you need to work on it or recognize the red flag and move on.
Someone did a really good thread on this a while back and i wish i had saved it 😔
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