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3 simple steps to get out of the FRIENDZONE.
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Being stuck in a friendship and wanting more can be a frustrating position. Sometimes this frustration is sexually motivated, with one friend desiring a physical relationship with the other.
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Being stuck in a friendship and wanting more can be a frustrating position. Sometimes this frustration is sexually motivated, with one friend desiring a physical relationship with the other.
Being stuck in the friendzone is the most annoying thing that can happen to a guy especially when you want more from the relationship other than being friends...
When someone gets stuck in the friend zone, they have entered into an exchange friendship that isn't even. The other person is getting everything he/she wants...but the person stuck in the friend zone isn't
The friend zone person sold himself or herself short.
The friend zone person sold himself or herself short.
The friend zone person sold himself or herself short. They gave their "friend" everything, without making sure they got everything they wanted in return.
Boy A and girl B are friends," A does everything for B. He takes her places, buys her things, listens to all of her problems, and helps her out of trouble. A however, wants to be B's boyfriend. B though, isn't interested because she's having all of her "boyfriend" needs met by A.
..... A, without having to meet his. She can be free, non-committed, and still have all of A's effort. That is why A is in the friend zone
How to escape the friend zone
1. Be less interested.
Whatever you we're doing that got you in the zone must be stopped.. Stop texting her, stop complimenting her, stop been too available.. Take a step back... Being "needy" is no way to negotiate.
1. Be less interested.
Whatever you we're doing that got you in the zone must be stopped.. Stop texting her, stop complimenting her, stop been too available.. Take a step back... Being "needy" is no way to negotiate.
So be less interested and be ready to walk away if you don't get the relationship you want.
2.put a value on yourself.
Spend some time away from your "friend" and do less for them. If they truly appreciate you, then your absence will make them miss you and want you more
2.put a value on yourself.
Spend some time away from your "friend" and do less for them. If they truly appreciate you, then your absence will make them miss you and want you more
When you are no longer around as much or tending to their needs, they will most likely feel the loss. This may increase their desire for you and their willingness to meet your needs back. If it doesn't, then they are just "not that into you." In that case, find another "friend
3. Let them invest in you.
The more they invest in the relationship, the more you will mean to them. So, stop doing favors ... and start asking for them
The more they invest in the relationship, the more you will mean to them. So, stop doing favors ... and start asking for them
..... Get them to give you a ride,fix something for you or just something usual. If you usually go see your "friend" now tell them to come see you,let your friend invest their time and energy in you.
So there you have it guys! Just remember to focus on your own worth, don't be desperate, and be willing to walk away. Allow some space for the other person to miss you. Make some friends outside of that friendship. Finally, let that friend invest in you and reward them for it.
If they truly value you in their life, then they will be much more likely to take the relationship to the next level. If they don't, then be ready to move on.
The choice is yours man!, I've already made mine.
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