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Love is a rational choice. There's no soulmate, there's no one true love, there's no eternal honeymoon. Love is a matter of finding someone who is trying to be a Saint and choosing to love them every single day.
You girls think a perfect man is going to fall into your lap? Find a decent man who works hard and mold him into a Saint. Your power is limitless! Never stop respecting him, but never stop pushing him to be worthy of your respect.
And you boys, you think a woman will respect your mindless gaming and flabby physique? Your laziness and lack of work ethics? Wake up and suffer the curse of eden every day so that you can court your woman's respect. Charm and romance her every day of your life.
Marriage isn't over after the wedding day. That's the beginning. You will suffer and experience the full curse of our fallen nature every day of your lives because you are finally one complete flesh, you have risen out of loneliness and bound yourself to the double yoke of love.
This is good and this is beautiful. The constancy and fruits of a good marriage will make all of the pain worth it and will even, God willing, make you a Saint. Choose to love, don't wait for attraction to make you it's fickle servant.
