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Years, decades ago now I started researching male abuse behaviour, and the ever darker side of male sexuality for writing purposes. It got worse & worse. I spoke to men who did things that were unthinkable but who seemed very polite and matter of fact.
I learned about places where extreme torture was carried out by sexual sadists. In my town. I saw images I canât forget and in fact developed a dark sense of humour about it all as a coping mechanism. Iâd laugh about the Concrete Enema and VW auto erotic
asphyxiation guy. After all, they only hurt - or killed - themselves trying to get off. I had books I had to put out of the way of my partner who couldnât cope with it and I didnât want him to. I learned that there is absolutely nothing whatsoever
that a man who wants to wonât do to fulfil his sexual drive about whatever grim shit gets him off. Nothing whatsoever. Nothing will stop him and the more he âindulgesâ - they love words like that - the more extreme it becomes.
These were husbands, fathers, sons, brothers. Ordinary looking. Boring even because obsessed people are very often boringly single minded. They had no conscience and no empathy and saw no reason they should. Literally, didnât get it. Blank expressions.
I thought itâs as bad as it gets, how could it possibly get worse? Then the internet really exploded. And it has. Itâs got a thousand times worse and itâs getting even worse every day. Iâm going to say now, not all men. I mean that.
Itâs not all men. But those men that arenât doing this shit need to stand up and speak out in public. Now the Bad Guys are coming after your children in the open. Theyâre in libraries, schools, play events, theyâve hijacked Gay events. Theyâre hiding behind
peopleâs fear of being called a bigot, or a transphobe or a Puritan or a facist. Hiding behind genuine transgender people and using them as a human shield for example. Thatâs just one example because theyâll use anything. A very male
characteristic is ruthlessness in pursuit of goals. I used to be accused of that as if it was unthinkable in a woman. That brutal ruthlessness is now aimed at your families, men. Stand up and fight. Speak out. Or face the terrible consequences of silence.
