Be compelling not convincing
Instead of SPENDING energy to convince
INVEST energy into becoming more compelling
If what you want requires a level of 20
Become a level 40
Instead of SPENDING energy to convince
INVEST energy into becoming more compelling
If what you want requires a level of 20
Become a level 40
If my max bench is 300
Benching 300 requires a lot of force & needs my A game to hit it
I won't always get it unless everything is on point
If I invest more time to get my max bench to 405
Benching 300 becomes easy/guaranteed
Benching 300 requires a lot of force & needs my A game to hit it
I won't always get it unless everything is on point
If I invest more time to get my max bench to 405
Benching 300 becomes easy/guaranteed
^ this is the reason so many goals fall short
Tons of elements such as randomness, miscalculation, changes, unforeseen variables
Mean every plan does not go according to plan
Therefore if you want $100,000 & aim for $100,000
You'll almost always fall short of the goal
Tons of elements such as randomness, miscalculation, changes, unforeseen variables
Mean every plan does not go according to plan
Therefore if you want $100,000 & aim for $100,000
You'll almost always fall short of the goal
If you want $100,000 - you make it guaranteed by taking the actions equivalent to a $500,000-$1M plan
They say in sales if you want to make $1 million
You need to make $10million in offers
Offers meaning - opportunities where the possibility of a sale is presented/asked
They say in sales if you want to make $1 million
You need to make $10million in offers
Offers meaning - opportunities where the possibility of a sale is presented/asked
If you are 10 levels above it. It is obvious & easy
If you are equal to it, it requires your 100%
Superficial example of followers to make this clear:
If you are a car YouTuber with 500k subscribers
Car YouTubers with 50-150k subscribers are guaranteed to respond to your DM's
If you are equal to it, it requires your 100%
Superficial example of followers to make this clear:
If you are a car YouTuber with 500k subscribers
Car YouTubers with 50-150k subscribers are guaranteed to respond to your DM's
If you are equal to the thing
You will need to SPEND more energy convincing & converting to make it happen
That same energy can be further INVESTED in raising your value to become more compelling
After you experience this you will NEVER want to go back to the old way
You will need to SPEND more energy convincing & converting to make it happen
That same energy can be further INVESTED in raising your value to become more compelling
After you experience this you will NEVER want to go back to the old way
If 300 is your max bench there's uncertainty & tension
If 400 is your max bench, there is ease & certainty moving 300
Weather it is a date, a client, a friend - this ease & obvious worth changes the entire dynamic
Making it a more natural/authentic/positive experience
If 400 is your max bench, there is ease & certainty moving 300
Weather it is a date, a client, a friend - this ease & obvious worth changes the entire dynamic
Making it a more natural/authentic/positive experience
Be compelling not convincing
Investing energy in your value is better than spending energy to convince others of your value
Invest to the point where your value is 5-10 levels above what it needs to be for the result
Then the result is a obvious no brainer
Cheers
- Yous
Investing energy in your value is better than spending energy to convince others of your value
Invest to the point where your value is 5-10 levels above what it needs to be for the result
Then the result is a obvious no brainer
Cheers
- Yous

I cultivated this mindset many years ago
Because of video games
It took an average of 40 kills of this one boss monster to get the rare $25million armor
I'd kill it 40 times & get nothing
I'd see my friends kill it 20 times & get the armor twice
This happened almost every time I tried to kill a boss monster
At first I played victim: "i'm soo unlucky"
Then I said fk it
If it takes 40 kills on average. I will do 240
This mindset followed me in life
If what I want requires 'x' i will do 5-10x what is needed
At first I played victim: "i'm soo unlucky"
Then I said fk it
If it takes 40 kills on average. I will do 240
This mindset followed me in life
If what I want requires 'x' i will do 5-10x what is needed