open this thread.
for reassurance for
doms, subs, switches
safe and genuine âĄ
for reassurance for
doms, subs, switches
safe and genuine âĄ
tws.
repetitive use of words
mentioning of depression, anxiety, overthinking
long thread ahead.
repetitive use of words
mentioning of depression, anxiety, overthinking
long thread ahead.
⥠its ok if youre a dom -
that is too anxious to have phone sex
that isnt always in the mood to sext
that is too depressed to horny post
that is depressed but feels a need to pleasure others, in fear of them leaving
that isnt ready for a relationship +
that is too anxious to have phone sex
that isnt always in the mood to sext
that is too depressed to horny post
that is depressed but feels a need to pleasure others, in fear of them leaving
that isnt ready for a relationship +
that feels a constant need to prove their ability. you dont, just be you and thats perfect
that is too anxious to send that vn
that overthinks every word when sexting
that takes ten minutes to send a vn
that isnt comfortable with sending nudes
that only has soft kinks +
that is too anxious to send that vn
that overthinks every word when sexting
that takes ten minutes to send a vn
that isnt comfortable with sending nudes
that only has soft kinks +
that doesnt fit the common stereotype of a 'dom'
that wants to be cared for too
that cant tame a brat, they arent for everyone
that isnt into something others are
that is into something others arent, with the exclusion of some obvious things +
that wants to be cared for too
that cant tame a brat, they arent for everyone
that isnt into something others are
that is into something others arent, with the exclusion of some obvious things +
⥠its ok if youre a sub -
that isnt comfortable sending nudes
that isnt comfortable with certain petnames
that dislikes harsh kinks
that has certain kinks to cope with trauma, same for doms and switches too
that doesnt own any toys, or clothes that make them feel good +
that isnt comfortable sending nudes
that isnt comfortable with certain petnames
that dislikes harsh kinks
that has certain kinks to cope with trauma, same for doms and switches too
that doesnt own any toys, or clothes that make them feel good +
that has strict partents, and cant call or be too loud. same for doms and switches
that uses proper punctuation
that is masculine presenting
that is feminine presenting
that is a cis male
that feels excluded or not good enough for being so
that doesnt like penetration +
that uses proper punctuation
that is masculine presenting
that is feminine presenting
that is a cis male
that feels excluded or not good enough for being so
that doesnt like penetration +
that feels constantly lonely. my dms are always open, same for doms and switches
that sleeps early
that wants cared for too
that wants attention, though not to the point its toxic or bringing down someone else
that sends nudes for validation. every body is perfect.
that sleeps early
that wants cared for too
that wants attention, though not to the point its toxic or bringing down someone else
that sends nudes for validation. every body is perfect.
⥠its ok if youre a switch -
that isnt always in the opposite headspace your partner is
that feels pressured by their partner to do something they arent comfortable with
that cries after phone sex thinking they arent good enough, yet still gives aftercare
that has a heavy sub lean +
that feels pressured by their partner to do something they arent comfortable with
that cries after phone sex thinking they arent good enough, yet still gives aftercare
that has a heavy sub lean +
that has a heavy dom lean
that has no lean and feels indecisive
that cant always be there when their partner needs it, everyone has little problems through the day. and needs to outweigh them with happy things
that is too lazy and worn out to clean up after m wording ++
that has no lean and feels indecisive
that cant always be there when their partner needs it, everyone has little problems through the day. and needs to outweigh them with happy things
that is too lazy and worn out to clean up after m wording ++
though you need to, anything is better than nothing. same for subs and doms
that gets more pleasure from being in ds or ss
that feels pressured into switching when not comfortable
that feels bad for getting into ss with their partner ++
that gets more pleasure from being in ds or ss
that feels pressured into switching when not comfortable
that feels bad for getting into ss with their partner ++
if youre in a healthy partnership, they should be understanding. and if you both are in similar headspaces, maybe do something together. draw pictures, comfort eachother in a call, play online games.
⥠its ok if -
you arent comfortable with your body
if it takes you time to be able to call, videocall, send vns
youre plus sized
youre at lower sizes
you dont even have motivation to speak to people. sit up and have a cup of water. even half, you need a boost of energy.
you arent comfortable with your body
if it takes you time to be able to call, videocall, send vns
youre plus sized
youre at lower sizes
you dont even have motivation to speak to people. sit up and have a cup of water. even half, you need a boost of energy.
everyone should respect and give indepth thought to how others may be feeling in certain situations. and it doesnt make you any less of a dom, sub or switch, saying "no". or declining someones request to do something, be completely comfortable.
