Okay.

I think we need to talk about blow jobs. You can blame Zoe York for this thread.

She states she doesn't like how the camera focuses on his (Massimo from 365) pleasure during those scenes. This movie is supposed to be about the female gaze, the female pleasure.

Despite all of cis het men and all the porn in existence, blow jobs are not about the man's pleasure. It's about power and pleasure. Who is giving it and who is receiving it.

The person giving the blow job has all the power. All of it.

If you're decent at giving a blow job you understand how this can be true. If you are amazing at blow jobs you know this to be hashtag facts.

If you tell someone with a dick that if they hang upside down while swinging from rope with bells on their pinky toes they will get the best blow job of their life, guess who the fuck is about to be hanging upside down with bells on their gotdamn pinky toes?

I know it may feel confusing. The person giving the blowjob has an object in their mouth that can cut off their air.

If you clamp down I can tell you you will have air within seconds.

But honestly the most vulnerable person is the one getting the pleasure.

They can ask how slow, deep etc. but if the giver is doing it right there isn't much 1. the receiver can say 2. they won't be cognizant enough to dictate anything.

So then who is truly in control?

So what we're seeing is Massimo vulnerable. That's what gets Laura off.

That's why you should write more blow jobs or better ones. Understand the giver has all the power. It is not at all about the receiver.

And if you doubt this, who is in control when a pussy is getting eaten?

Who was in control between Nate and Robyn when he went down on her? It wasn't Robyn. She had bells on her pinky toes.

Anyway...