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most men are socialized to ostracize themselves from other in a *slightly* roundabout way, it's not really surprising most can't let go of their close friends https://twitter.com/PallaviGunalan/status/1344288962030882817
most women don't realize how dependant men are on their close friends and maybe their girlfriend for emotional support because they've never been taught how to open up.
like, it's comically easy to get close to most guys by providing what to others seems like the bare minimum
like, it's comically easy to get close to most guys by providing what to others seems like the bare minimum
like if a guy removes the "showing affection through pseudo competition" barrier a few times with another guy they would instantly take a bullet for each other because they're completely starved pf anything resembling that type of connection.
straight guys are caught in the intersection of having their life completely planned out for them and having their social role, rightfully, broken down but without being offered any actual alternative
everyone seems to just beat them down because... honestly I have no idea
everyone seems to just beat them down because... honestly I have no idea
also the common understanding of toxic masculinity is so fucked
like if basically half the population is exhibiting specific toxic traits you have the OBLIGATION to frame the conversation with them as being victims of something
like if basically half the population is exhibiting specific toxic traits you have the OBLIGATION to frame the conversation with them as being victims of something
of course the victims of men's actions due to that toxicity need to heard but also that doesn't actually fix the core issue and they're often used as shield for literally not taking direct action to solve it in typical progressive spaces
if the left doesn't facilitate some kind of men's movement in the coming decades we're gonna see fucking MRAs and MGTOWs on the rise again and shit's gonna get real ugly real fast
the rightoids are gonna get all our boys™
the rightoids are gonna get all our boys™
admittedly since like 2018 there HAS been a shift in the way this issue is seen in some circles.
this isn't even me bitching and moaning about "what about men" like do you think I like basically consoling girls because their bfs can't communicate for shit?
this isn't even me bitching and moaning about "what about men" like do you think I like basically consoling girls because their bfs can't communicate for shit?
it's fucking crazy how easily most men open up to these ideas lf you don't approach them with the scraps of feminism it's really just a case of fucking aesthetics for guys to become receptive.
and then you cuck em nice and good
and then you cuck em nice and good
