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Are you familiar with the terms "strong white woman" or strong asian woman" or "strong arab woman"? Probably not. Yet everybody knows about the "strong black woman". Why is that? Cause women in other cultures don't advertise "strength" because that's a masculine trait...
Black women embrace this pseudo strength & wear it like a badge of honor. The problem is, women who advertise "strength" & "independence" don't attract the protector & provider type of men, they say they want....
If they do get with this protector/provider type of man, the relationship eventually fails due to power struggles. The type of "strength" black women tend to exhibit today is unnatural. They believe that strength = masculinity & they've adopted masculine traits...
A man needs to come home to a woman's softness. A balance. A woman's strength is different than a man's strength. A woman's softness is her strength. Men won't commit or give their all, to a woman they compete with but a woman they collaborate with. A partner NOT a rival.
