After lots of thought and consideration, I am happy to announce that I am quitting onlyfans. Let’s talk about it. A thread:
I felt it was important to discuss this because everyone talks about starting sex work, but no one talks about LEAVING sexwork. And bro it’s actually kinda rough. For context: I worked full time creating explicit content.
For me, it was such an emotionally, mentally and spiritually tough thing to do. Emotionally; I loved it and I loved how pretty it would make me feel. Physically, the financial security is hard to walk away from.
Mentally; I felt like I signed my life away to sexwork anyways, so why quit. Spiritually; I was afraid I’d fail and just end up back on onlyfans. And some of us have put our friends and family through it emotionally just because we’re sexworkers.
For me, I felt a little “embarrassed” quitting. Like I fought with my whole fam just to quit? I was scared of my loved ones being like “I told you so.”
I realized none of these reasons for staying with OF are because I’m truly happy with it. These reasons are just self limiting beliefs that I’m replaying in my head like a broken record. I knew I needed to go inward and ground myself. I knew I needed to get out of my own way.
I know I can’t be the only sexworker who’s gone through this contemplation process. It can be a lonely thing to go through which is why I wanted to make this thread. Walking away from ANY form of security is hard, but you gotta take risks and adjust.
More importantly, you gotta have faith in yourself and your aspirations. If you see more for yourself and onlyfans is in the thing in the way; PUSH THAT HOE OUT OF YOUR WAY.
You can always come back to it if you need to; there’s no shame in that and don’t let anyone tel you otherwise . Life’s rough and we’re all just tryna make it and be happy at the end of the day.
If I were to ever return to onlyfans; I would do it completely differently knowing what I know now. But as of right now, I have no intentions of ever returning to onlyfans. Thank you to anyone who’s ever supported my OF. 🥺🥺🥺✨✨💕💕 so excited for this fresh start.
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