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1/ A quick thread:
Don’t apologise for changing for the better.
If you are doing well & you are not consciously hurting anyone, then you keep your face towards the light. Don’t let people drag you down.
Boys & Girls, you have to understand that not all relationships are the
Don’t apologise for changing for the better.
If you are doing well & you are not consciously hurting anyone, then you keep your face towards the light. Don’t let people drag you down.
Boys & Girls, you have to understand that not all relationships are the
2/ same. Some people do not want you to change because they are comfortable with you being where you are.
Some people are dependent upon you being perceived as ‘lower’ than them because it gives them an ego boost. Sad but true.
When you make a change for the better & you get
Some people are dependent upon you being perceived as ‘lower’ than them because it gives them an ego boost. Sad but true.
When you make a change for the better & you get
3/ resistance from some of the people that you expect to love & support you, I know it’s easy to say, but try not to be disheartened.
For some of those folks, you changing is not about you, it’s about them. Your positive change is a mirror on the parts of themselves
For some of those folks, you changing is not about you, it’s about them. Your positive change is a mirror on the parts of themselves
4/ which they feel they cannot change. My Uncle always said “it’s easy to knock people down but hard to build yourself up. Stop focusing on other’s wrongs & fix your own.”
Also, it’s not always about money. It could be you want to lose weight, learn an instrument, start a new
Also, it’s not always about money. It could be you want to lose weight, learn an instrument, start a new
5/ relationship, move on from a trauma that was holding you down, buy a pair of trainers...” the list is endless.
Jealousy is real & you have to accept it.
We are human & we all get jealous - y do you think we watch celebrities so much?
But don’t let destroy your life.
Jealousy is real & you have to accept it.
We are human & we all get jealous - y do you think we watch celebrities so much?
But don’t let destroy your life.
6/ Root for everyone. Let their successes inspire you. Know that while they are smiling in their insta pictures, you don’t know the struggle, pain & sacrifice it took to get there.
Try to have positive energy towards people. If they are being arseholes, you don’t have to stoop
Try to have positive energy towards people. If they are being arseholes, you don’t have to stoop
7/ to their level. Pigs love wrestling in 
. You are not their therapist either. It’s not your job to figure out why they are acting that way. Wish them luck & move on.
Embrace people who challenge you to get better, celebrate your victories & pick you up in your defeats.
. You are not their therapist either. It’s not your job to figure out why they are acting that way. Wish them luck & move on.Embrace people who challenge you to get better, celebrate your victories & pick you up in your defeats.
8/ Hang around people who appreciate you. Can tell you when you are wrong & back you up when you are right.
Being tolerated is one stop away from being disrespected. Don’t allow that.
Lastly, it takes an incredible amount of effort to change for the better. Whether it is your
Being tolerated is one stop away from being disrespected. Don’t allow that.
Lastly, it takes an incredible amount of effort to change for the better. Whether it is your
9/ health, finances, personal relationships, spirituality, career, cleaning your damn house...
If people are giving you crap for changing then it could be a sign they are no longer meant to be in this chapter of your life. It’s not beef, it’s growth.
The people who you start
If people are giving you crap for changing then it could be a sign they are no longer meant to be in this chapter of your life. It’s not beef, it’s growth.
The people who you start
10/ with may not be the people you finish with. Be thankful they were there, celebrate your time with them but move on.
You might be blocking their path to betterment. It’s painful, but maybe later you will see the wisdom of letting go.
Toxic energy does no good for anyone.
You might be blocking their path to betterment. It’s painful, but maybe later you will see the wisdom of letting go.
Toxic energy does no good for anyone.
11/ that’s the end of my train of thought...
#edutwitter I’m wishing you a wonderful, safe & prosperous 2021.
Fin.
#edutwitter I’m wishing you a wonderful, safe & prosperous 2021.
Fin.
