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The question to ask yourself is not what am I getting,
The question to ask yourself is what am I becoming.
Two very powerful questions to ask your self. How do you apply these questions:
The question to ask yourself is what am I becoming.
Two very powerful questions to ask your self. How do you apply these questions:
What are you getting in your current relationships? Are you getting what you need? Are you giving what the other person needs? Then say: What am I becoming? Is this relationship what I want. Is it making me and us what we want it to be, and taking us where we want to go.
On your job ask yourself the same questions. What am I getting. Is it a paycheck, is it security, is it fulfillment, etc.
Then again ask yourself “What am I becoming”.
Are you becoming what you want to become.
Then again ask yourself “What am I becoming”.
Are you becoming what you want to become.
As human beings we tend to think about ourselves first, right? Lets assume you said yes. So we do a pros and cons list and say, I am getting this, this ,this, this, this, this, this.
That is pretty good. We can rationalize and justify that it is worth it.
That is pretty good. We can rationalize and justify that it is worth it.
But what if we ask ourselves the harder question and say, REALLY.
What am I becoming?
many people when they make a decision to change usually do so because they didn’t like the person they were becoming.
This takes a self-awareness that is really objective
What am I becoming?
many people when they make a decision to change usually do so because they didn’t like the person they were becoming.
This takes a self-awareness that is really objective
So let me add a third question for you. What am I getting, What am I becoming, and the third question to ask yourself “Is this acceptable”,
“Is this what I want”.
“Is this what I want”.
Do an assessment. Think about all of your current relationships, your job, your friends, your colleagues, etc.
You become what you are around, you become what you are exposed to the most.
Ask your self the two questions and then the final question:
You become what you are around, you become what you are exposed to the most.
Ask your self the two questions and then the final question:
“Are you good with what that is?”
The good thing about being human who can think and make decisions, is you have the ability to change your current situation and become anything you want to become...
The good thing about being human who can think and make decisions, is you have the ability to change your current situation and become anything you want to become...
