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Well, because I started to shift the focus more to myself. My aim was to be debt free. AND I DID IT!
(sampai sekarang tak boleh buat pinjaman lansung sebab tiada komitmen dekat mana-mana. But that's for a different tweet yo)
When I started to take care of myself, I became
(sampai sekarang tak boleh buat pinjaman lansung sebab tiada komitmen dekat mana-mana. But that's for a different tweet yo)
When I started to take care of myself, I became
unappealing to him who took advantage of my love, kindness and attentionI was no longer an ATM. I was no longer the chauffeur, made him drive instead and earn that petrol I put in my car when he is using it
My total debt was 50k at that time & he has the audacity to
ask for a RM700 snare from me. Dah la tak ada sumber pendapatan langsung
They say how a person breaks up with their exes tell a lot about them. So let me reiterate the day he broke up with me
He hasn't contacted me for 2-3days
He asked me to pick him up from his paying
partime job
He avoided small talk with me by acting tired
I let him sleep while I drove
We had dinner at one of our usual spot
Rare occasion that he paid for his dinner
He said he wants to drive to his place
He parked my car a bit further than his drop off spot
THEN he broke off with me
A charming USER I would summarize. He saw nothing wrong with securing a ride before he dump me
The post I wrote the night that happened. I was blindsided and still very much care for him
https://www.facebook.com/1021526131/posts/10209142384609678/
As time passes, reality sets in
I wrote this post when I started to continue to heal and unravel the whole relationship facade
https://www.facebook.com/1021526131/posts/10212652133591209/
Now he is just another person who owes me money. I had brought him to court & will again if he doesn't follow through with the payment plan agreed in court
Hutang tidak dituntut di mahkamah RM2,206
Hutang yang dituntut di mahkamah RM5,000
Saya tidak menghalalkan hutang kepada pihak defendan sebanyak MYR 5,706 selagi dia tidak membayarnya
"Jiwa seseorang mukmin itu tergantung dengan sebab hutangnya hinggalah dijelaskan”
[Diriwayatkan oleh Tarmizi, Ibn Majah, Ahmad dan Hahim dari Abu Hurairah]
I have excel sheet file of the debt that he owes me, screenshots of our conversations about the debt & proof that he was unresponsive to the debt for 2 years. All submitted to court
I also have ALL screenshots of the conversations I had with a person whom I asked to
help remind him of the debt but the conversation then focused on his physical abused towards herI also have the recording of the conversation of her asking me for some form of help for the above matter & all our conversation ended cordially
I also have responded officially
at the exact same police station for a report accusing me of stalking & harrasment the same girl. She accused me of obtaining her home address in a shady way. I have screenshots from his and her social medias of their address to send HIM the court order AFTER
the registered letter containing the court order (for the debt) was unclaimed and returned to me
Oh ni bukan spilling tea. Ni luahan perasaan sebab ada kemungkinan kena pergi mahkamah lagi sebab dia dah mula culas membayar semula
And a reminder to people including myself
Ya, ayat-ayat & janji-janji manis dengan suara lembut, sentuhan mesra semua boleh diguna
And a reminder to people including myself
Ya, ayat-ayat & janji-janji manis dengan suara lembut, sentuhan mesra semua boleh diguna
untuk mempergunakan kita. For our money, for our time & attention
Ye aku kecewa. Kecewa dengan diri sendiri sebab tertipu. Padahal red flags banyak
This a good thread about money sharing amongst couple. Park sini jap. I know I did one thing here that I am not proud of out of spite https://twitter.com/mynikkaname/status/1356422595587960832?s=19
