I just find it unfair how I’m more comfortable referring to myself as slurs rather than gay because of how girls and non mlm have fetishised my sexuality and made me feel like gay is just something they can get off on and obsess over the possibility of a man being

LGBT girls, you aren’t exempt from this, and I see you guys doing this more than het girls tbh

I didn’t mean to say girls in the last tweet, I meant non-men

This tweet is just going to get ignored because you’ll read it and think it’s not you or think it’s me being petulant but I’m so fucking sick of it

You’re all just so blatantly homophobic to gay men (some of you while being lgbt yourself) and it’s not fucking fair??

Why should I have to log onto this app just to see “he looks ”, “my gay beans”, “he’s a bit...”, “doesn’t he seem gay?”, “oh I ship x and y”, solely because they’re men and you get off on the idea of gay men but don’t want to admit it to yourself

It’s just as bad as straight men talking about lesbian porn, but you’ll never hear anyone talking about it.

It’s fucking disgusting, and I’m so so so sick of it

You can’t “seem” gay.

Stop making jokes about gay men unless you are a man that fancies men. I don’t give a fuck whether you’re lgbt, if you’re not mlm then it’s not your place.

People can’t “act” gay

You don’t have a fucking gaydar, you probably don’t have a fucking clue what it even means.

It is fucking weird to obsess over ships just because they’re gay men.

Ghost moots! Stop shipping a fucking Tory with a gay fella

Listen to mlm when they talk.

Let men have fucking friends without accusing them of trying to shag each other.

Stop shipping gay characters with every other man in the show/film, we’re not fucking perverts, it’s got “I don’t care that you’re gay, just don’t fancy me” energy

Stop fucking talking to us all like we’re all on episodes of drag race.

If you met me you wouldn’t have a fucking clue that I’m a bender because I got bullied so so so badly for the possibility of it that I shut the idea of it away for so long and I make jokes about having girlfriends a lot but is it fair that [...]

I, as a boy who had just turned twelve, started dating a random girl that was way too old to be dating me, just so that people would stop calling me gay, only to come onto the internet just to see you all romanticise internalised homophobia in men???

Stop fucking romanticising internalised homophobia.

I cannot stress enough that none of you will ever understand how much this fucking sucks unless you are mlm. It’s not the same for us as it is for non-men ppl who experience sga. It’s nothing like it.