Your framing of lesbians as pure, virginal, angelic type figures untainted by the dirtiness of sex and sexuality is actually pretty violently lesbophobic.
It's also rooted in this idea that contact with a penis is a life changing event that taints women forever, and only lesbians are free of this and therefore only lesbians are truly pure - a massively patriarchal construcr that is literally used to control and shame women.
tw: rape
It's also massively damaging for many lesbians, because some lesbians have penises, some lesbians have been with people with penises, and that's not even to mention victims of rape and sexual assault who are already shamed enough for the crime committed against them.
It's also massively damaging for many lesbians, because some lesbians have penises, some lesbians have been with people with penises, and that's not even to mention victims of rape and sexual assault who are already shamed enough for the crime committed against them.
This is just 'penises taint women forever' misogyny and 'lesbian sex isn't real sex' homophobia with an ever so slightly tweaked packaging.
Guess what? Lesbians, and wlw of all varieties, FUCK. And sometimes a penis is involved and sometimes it isn't. Still fucking, either way.
Guess what? Lesbians, and wlw of all varieties, FUCK. And sometimes a penis is involved and sometimes it isn't. Still fucking, either way.
Idealising lesbians as pure and untainted is dehumanizing as fuck and you need to stop doing it, to back up your transphobia or for literally any other reason.
THIS IS ALSO VERY FUCKING IMPORTANT.
And no, you don't get to drag lesbians and sapphics who don't fuck into your gross dehumanising purity culture idealising of sex and sexuality either, leave them the fuck alone too. https://twitter.com/_CandaceHarper/status/1343629517038882817?s=19
And no, you don't get to drag lesbians and sapphics who don't fuck into your gross dehumanising purity culture idealising of sex and sexuality either, leave them the fuck alone too. https://twitter.com/_CandaceHarper/status/1343629517038882817?s=19