Malcom X befriended lived in house of prostitutes in his earlier days. He mentions an important thing about the male psyche in his autobiography.
I'm neither justifying what these men are doing and am neither blaming their wives. It's a point of how men work I'm highlighting:
I'm neither justifying what these men are doing and am neither blaming their wives. It's a point of how men work I'm highlighting:
He says about their customers:
"It was [mostly] husbands [and not single men] who had left home in time to stop by this St. Nicholas Avenue house before they went on to work."
"It was [mostly] husbands [and not single men] who had left home in time to stop by this St. Nicholas Avenue house before they went on to work."
Domineering complaining demanding wives who had just about psychologically castrated their husbands were responsible for the early rush. These waves were so disagreeable and had made their men so tense hat they were robbed of the satisfaction of beng men.
To escape this tension and the chance of beng ridiculed by his own wife, each of these men had gotten up early and come to a prostitute.
The prostitutes had to make it their business to be students of men.
The prostitutes had to make it their business to be students of men.
They said that after most men passed their virile twenties, they went to bed mainy to satisty their egos, and because a lot of women don't understand it that way, they damage and wreck a man's ego.
No matter how little virility a man has to offer, prostitutes make him feel for a time that he in the greatest man in the world. That's why these proses had that morning rush of business. More women could keep their husbands if they realized their greatest urge is to be men."
Prostitution, the lack of political correctness and men justifying their deeds aside, emasculated men feeling unsatisfied in their marriage is a very real thing that I hear again and again in my phone calls. Just something to keep in mind.