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I have and have had friends who I honestly feel madly in love with. And that happens and it’s normal for me lol and I don’t particularly want to be with them either and that feels okay bc do I have to relegate those feelings to a monogamous/ romantic “relationship”?
The answer is rhetorical because no I don’t lol. My relationships can be whatever me and the other person say it is. And I don’t want to feel pressured to prioritize my romantic partner over any other relationship in my life.
And more relevant to me, my relationships don’t always fit in neat boxes of “ok you’re my friend” “you’re my sis” “you’re who I fuck” “you’re my bae” like sometimes those things overlap and as long as we agree and are clear then what’s the problem?
I just want to be free. And I have to realize that many of my relationships have failed because I wanted them to look like what I’ve seen on tv, or toxic like the examples I have in my family, or something that doesn’t suit me. I want more for myself and my loves
I just gotta keep communicating and trusting that those who are with me and for me will appreciate that, and do the same. Idek if this is “relationship anarchy” but this is what it inspires in me.
