Schrödinger's slur:
Someone says the n-word behind you (singing along to a rap song). Until you turn around and identify their race, they're both spewing ugly racism AND righteously reclaiming a slur. Until you know the source, it's good and evil at the same time.
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Someone says the n-word behind you (singing along to a rap song). Until you turn around and identify their race, they're both spewing ugly racism AND righteously reclaiming a slur. Until you know the source, it's good and evil at the same time.
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This is the bizarre nature of the n-word taboo. As a white liberal, I'm not even going to use it in a pseudonymous tweet. It's seen as so harmful that a young girl lost out on her chosen college because she said the word at age 15.
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Yet it's used constantly in casual conversation or in incredibly popular music. I hear it at my poker game every week (from Asian and Hispanic players only, not from Black players). I hear it on the street as I walk through Harlem.
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@JohnHMcWhorter puts it well: "The N-word is a slur...sparing usage and serious caution are warranted. Respect, nevertheless, has morphed into a kind of genuflection that an outsider might find difficult to understand."
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Taboos, like avoiding the n-word, are hard to talk about reasonably precisely because they are taboos. They have the aura of religion, of the sacred and the profane. Not using racist slurs as slurs is a good thing. Creating a religious aura around a particular slur is not.
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