So this thread is beautiful & you should read it, but —
this post, esp. the third sentence:
https://twitter.com/ceo_tbd/status/1342866062661070849
this post, esp. the third sentence:

Why do I always feel like I’ll be a burden if I ask for help, when I know how much I love helping others?
Like. It is genuinely a privilege to be asked & an honor to get to do a thing someone needed.
And at the same time — if it meant inconveniencing anybody, I would nearly sooner die than ask someone* for help
And at the same time — if it meant inconveniencing anybody, I would nearly sooner die than ask someone* for help
* Carmen doesn’t count
* if the universe didn’t want Carmen to help me with basically everything, then why did it even introduce us