when will exclusionists/REGs realize that sexuality is not as black and white as they think it is
for someone who's questioning whether they're bi or lesbian, it can be empowering to just stop caring about it and start using both labels instead of choosing between the two

they say that "bi lesbian" is contradictory but when they themselves are nonbinary lesbians, their own fucking ideology is contradictory because they believe that it's okay to be flexible with gender labels (lesbian usually means homosexual woman but they break that assumption -

by being a lesbian who's not a woman) but it is unacceptable to be flexible with sexuality labels (lesbian usually means homosexual woman but the label bi lesbian breaks that assumption by making it so that multisexual/-romantic people can be lesbians too)

fucking hell someone using two labels together to describe their experience better isn't gonna fucking hurt anyone. cishet men have always been trying to seduce and "change" lesbians, you can't blame mspec lesbians for that.

people have always been saying that bisexual people are just confused and they need to "pick a side". you cannot blame mspec lesbians for that biphobia.

"bi lesbians don't exist" yes they do because language exists. if language didn't exist then neither would lesbians. it's all just words, just labels that humans made up to suit their purposes. fucking let it go. it must be tiring to be that uptight about labels all the time.