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I’m gonna share a story about freemixing
Listen to it, especially if you mix in GCs.
جزاك اللهُ خيرًا .
(1/25)
Listen to it, especially if you mix in GCs.
جزاك اللهُ خيرًا .
(1/25)
a mature woman over the age of 40, tells her story.
I lived a life of modest means with my husband. There was never any closeness and harmony, and my husband did not have the kind of strong personality that a woman would hope for, (2/25)
I lived a life of modest means with my husband. There was never any closeness and harmony, and my husband did not have the kind of strong personality that a woman would hope for, (2/25)
but his good nature made me overlook the fact that I was the one who was responsible for most of the decision making in the family.
My husband often used to mention the name of his friend and business partner, and he would talk about him in my presence,(3/25)
My husband often used to mention the name of his friend and business partner, and he would talk about him in my presence,(3/25)
and I often used to meet with him in his office which was originally part of our apartment. This went on for many years, until circumstances led to us exchanging visits with this person and his family.(4/25)
These family visits were repeated and because of his close friendship with my husband, we did not notice how the number of visits increased and how many hours a single visit would last. He often used to come on his own to sit with us, me and my husband, for long visits.(5/25)
My husband’s trust in him knew no bounds, and as days passed I got to know this person very well, and saw how wonderful and decent he was. I began to feel a strong attraction towards this man, and at the same time I began to sense that the feeling was mutual.
(6/25)
(6/25)
Things took a strange turn after that, when I realized that this man was the kind of person I had always dreamed about. Why had he come along now, after all these years? The more this man’s status increased in my eyes, the more my husband’s status diminished.(7/25)
It was as if I had needed to see the beauty of his character in order to discover how ugly my husband’s character was.
The matter between this person and myself did not go beyond these persistent thoughts which were occupying my mind night and day.(8/25)
The matter between this person and myself did not go beyond these persistent thoughts which were occupying my mind night and day.(8/25)
Neither he nor I ever voiced what we felt in our hearts… until today. Yet despite that my life is over and my husband is little more than a weak man with no self-esteem. I hate him and I do not know how all this hatred towards him started to boil over.(9/25)
I wonder how I put up with him all these years, bearing all these burdens by myself, facing life’s problems on my own.
Things got so bad that I asked him for a divorce, and he divorced me at my request. After that he became a broken man.(10/25)
Things got so bad that I asked him for a divorce, and he divorced me at my request. After that he became a broken man.(10/25)
Even worse than that is that after my marriage was wrecked and my children and husband were devastated, problems arose in this man's family. His wife, with her feminine intuition, realized what had been going on in his heart of hearts, and his life became hell.(11/25)
She was overwhelmed with jealousy to the extent that one night she left her house at 2 a.m. and came to attack my house, screaming, weeping and hurling accusations. His marriage was also about to collapse.
(12/25)
(12/25)
I admit that the lovely gatherings which we used to enjoy gave us the opportunity to get to know one another at a time that was not appropriate at this stage in our lives.
His marriage has been wrecked and so has mine.(13/25)
His marriage has been wrecked and so has mine.(13/25)
I have lost everything, and now I know that my circumstances and his will not permit us to take any positive step towards coming together. Now I am more miserable than I have ever been, and I am looking for illusionary happiness and lost hopes.
End story(14/25)
End story(14/25)
Oh my brothers and sisters
Allah said don’t go anywhere NEAR zina.
“Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way.”
(17:32)
(15/25)
Allah said don’t go anywhere NEAR zina.
“Do not go near adultery. It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way.”
(17:32)
(15/25)
وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓ ۖ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ فَـٰحِشَةًۭ وَسَآءَ سَبِيلًۭا
Allah didn’t say “don’t do zina” here
He said don’t even go near it
Notice Allahs wisdom here as he knows there are little steps shaytan will do for you to fall into zina
(16/25)
Allah didn’t say “don’t do zina” here
He said don’t even go near it
Notice Allahs wisdom here as he knows there are little steps shaytan will do for you to fall into zina
(16/25)
Note zina isn’t just adultery as in sexual intimacy
Our Prophet ﷺ said “Allaah has decreed for every son of Adam his share of zina, which he will inevitably commit. The zina of the eyes is looking, the zina of the tongue is speaking,(17/25)
Our Prophet ﷺ said “Allaah has decreed for every son of Adam his share of zina, which he will inevitably commit. The zina of the eyes is looking, the zina of the tongue is speaking,(17/25)
one may wish and desire, and the private parts confirm that or deny it.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5889; Muslim, 2657.
(18/25£
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5889; Muslim, 2657.
(18/25£
Shaytan is patient, if he doesn’t get you now. He’ll wait for the right time then attack like a predator attacks the prey
Shaytan didn’t tell Adam(AS) “hey tree look nice go eat”
No! He kept at it until he made them believe it was their idea!
(19/25)
Shaytan didn’t tell Adam(AS) “hey tree look nice go eat”
No! He kept at it until he made them believe it was their idea!
(19/25)
وَسَآءَ سَبِيلًۭا
Allah describes it as a path!
There’s many things to it, you might have a few hours to kill so you log into the chat and talk
You came back after school you got 20 minutes until mosque so you decide to go chat to someone as you’re bored. Anything! (20/25)
Allah describes it as a path!
There’s many things to it, you might have a few hours to kill so you log into the chat and talk
You came back after school you got 20 minutes until mosque so you decide to go chat to someone as you’re bored. Anything! (20/25)
Allah mentions murder in the ayah after this, so Allah talks about the spiritual murder known as Zina first
And then Allah talks about murder in the ayah after
We see murder as big and zina as little.
(21/25)
And then Allah talks about murder in the ayah after
We see murder as big and zina as little.
(21/25)
Let’s talk about the word فَـٰحِشَةًۭ
Wahash in Arabic is a wild animal
Fahash is one who acts like a wild animal
The Arabic language has words which have close roots to each other
So do not go anywhere near zina for it is a shameless act like of the wild animals(22/25)
Wahash in Arabic is a wild animal
Fahash is one who acts like a wild animal
The Arabic language has words which have close roots to each other
So do not go anywhere near zina for it is a shameless act like of the wild animals(22/25)
When Adam and Hawwa(alayhimus salaam) clothes were taken off, that was their punishment and they instantly knew to cover themselves
They didn’t need a society to tell them that as Allah سُبْحَٰنَهُۥ وَتَعَٰلَىٰ gave them a conscience! (23/25)
They didn’t need a society to tell them that as Allah سُبْحَٰنَهُۥ وَتَعَٰلَىٰ gave them a conscience! (23/25)
We guard our chastity and cover ourselves and we respect each other’s one even if they aren’t guarding theirs as they are a creation of Allah!
They are the creation of Allah and so are you! Our return is to him!
We “love for our brothers what we love for ourselves” (24/25)
They are the creation of Allah and so are you! Our return is to him!
We “love for our brothers what we love for ourselves” (24/25)
May Allah bless you all, May He correct the wrong I had done and forgive us all
May Allah increase our knowledge
جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
And ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
(25/25)
May Allah increase our knowledge
جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
And ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
(25/25)
