open this thread to find out if you’re an abuser;

If you’ve ever forcefully kissed a boy/girl, you are an abuser

If you’ve ever coerced a boy/girl into “giving” or having sex with you, you are an abuser

If you have ever touched a girls ass or breasts/ boys dick without his/her consent, you are an abuser

If you’ve ever begged/ coerced a boy/girl into sending you nudes, you are an abuser

If you’ve ever blackmailed a boy/girl with his/her nudes, you are an abuser

If you SHARE nudes, you are an abuser

If you defend rapists/ justify the rape, you are an abuser

“Please babe, just the tip I promise”, you are an abuser.

If you send nudes to someone without their consent, you are an abuser

if you knew of the abuse but did not tell anyone because “it was not my place”, you are an abuser

if you’ve ever raped someone, you are an abuser

Telling a survivor it was his/her fault is abuse too xx

If he / she ever said to you “no”, “please stop”, “it hurts”, “I’m not sure”, “get off me”, “I don’t like this”, “leave me alone” or anything of the sort, but you persisted, omo, you’re an abuser o

If you screen-record intimate calls without consent, you’re an abuser

sending people to beg a boy/girl to indulge you is harassment and you are an abuser

If you have a get a boy/girl intoxicated before you move to them, not only are you an abuser, you are sick.

gaslighting someone to downplay the situation, is abuse.

“I won’t tell anyone”, but you go ahead and do just that? You are an abuser

If you spread lies/ rumors about sexual activity, you’re an abuser

If you share details about someone else’s sex life without their consent, you’re an abuser.