You'll often hear stories of men acting awful to women during or after the marriage process. What you'll rarely hear is men getting emotionally abused and manipulated and believe me when I say I've heard plenty of stories of this happening. Men just never speak up about it.

You might after sitting on this app hearing women complaining get the impression that it's just incels who complain about this. I've heard everything from men being dragged along and dumped due to financial issues all the way to being used to get to another guy.

Yes, it's true.

I'm only saying this because Twitter's echo chamber might make you think men are all incels and anyone who turns sour is because they can't handle insecurities.

Many men were just genuine folks who got dragged against the rode and now are too broken to talk about it.

My advice to men is that the minute you feel used, abused, manipulated or put-down, talk to someone about it and leave. Men have a complex where they think they need to "fight" because that's what we've been taught to be like. Sometimes it's better and make noble to just leave.

Oh and before anyone thinks this is another red-pill incel motivating tweet I've consistently spoken up against men for being awful to women. Talking about men's experiences doesn't make you incel as much as talking about women's issues doesn't make you a man-hating feminist.

Women here consistently let their own traumas project as "rightousness" by complaining about this day in and out but the minute a man expresses himself they're an incel? Please for a moment try and find out about men's experiences without the "it happens to women more".

Because sometimes it isn't about the fight between who gets abused more. When one of my friends was used and abused for another man I wasn't going to say "Oh but this happens to women more so shut up".

Some people should genuinely deactivate and reflect over their own states.