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I used to think vetting requires a great level of instinctual discernment, monitoring and observing the even slightest subtle dysfunctional behaviours. False take
Give her freedom to be who she is and she’ll reveal her true self. Let shit slide while limiting your investment in her. Do not call her out on anything besides her being late for a meet up or dishonouring an appointment without prior notice.
You’ll see who you dealing with, accept it, do not over analyse it or make up imaginary excuses that will obfuscate you. A virtuous woman will correct herself and act right for you without needing to be called into order. Give it 3-6 months if you’re pursuing an LTR.
If convinced, give it another 6 months with reasonable investment (emotional, finances, gradual access to personal space) and continue to vet. Exposing her to the other side of you she’s never witnessed will have her thinking she’s got you right in the palm of her hands.
You giving her the delusion of victory, she’ll sing on top of her with lungs with jubilation upon the assumption of the conquest of your frame, that’s when she’ll break out of her shell and reveal her truest self, not holding back by an inch.
This is a key moment because you could be complacent and actually believe she’s the right one as you’ll also experience a more appreciative, pleasant and complying side of her as a result of extending benefits to her. Remain solid and unmoved.
Any sudden development of irregular non compliance, a series of arguments in worrying intervals and general difficulty in her getting on board is a major red flag. An indicator that she’ll be unpleasant to deal with. Ship out asap and get it moving with other potential suitors.
If you’re sold that she’s been on good behaviour prior investing heavily and during the vetting period and she has been consistent before and after the introduction of extensive benefits, you’re likely dealing with an LTR type of a girl.
If her physical appearance, EQ and feminine traits appeal to you, act accordingly and give her commitment or leave her alone. Do not lead her on whilst you’re not planning on having anything serious with her. Do not wreck good women.
NB: This is not a foolproof strategy. You can still fall short but it is very reliable and you have a lot less to lose. Game knowledge and application doesn’t immunise you to female nature. It minimises your losses and maximises your wins.
