random things about synastry and composite charts: a thread
a synastry chart shows how two charts interact with each other, whereas a composite chart shows how they fuse together as one.
again, beware of harsh aspects between uranus and personal planets. esp sun moon venus and asc. can indicate instability, disorder, and lack of commitment. not good indicators of anything long lasting or long term.
on the other hand, saturn aspects are great indicators of long lasting connections. saturn is stable, durable, and makes us take things seriously. it gives us the strength to work through challenges that arise.
giving up on connections with saturn aspects are difficult because you feel as if maintaining the connection is your responsibility.
you don't want too much saturn influence however. otherwise the relationship may feel too overbearing and restrictive.
the moon is arguably one of (if not than is) the most important planets when it comes to synastry and composite compatibility.
moon aspects are what make us emotionally invested.
i remember reading the more contacts there are to the moon, the more emotionally invested/impacted one is.
bad moon synastry or an afflicted composite moon can indicate a lack of emotional understanding, issues with emotional intimacy, and a clashing of emotional needs.
also: can indicate troubles when it comes to living together.
too many easy aspects (sextiles and trines) will make a connection boring. it makes things too easy.
you risk becoming lazy within the relationship and taking each other for granted. things flow so smoothly, you may just slip right past each other and never look back.
harsh aspects are necessary to keep relationships exciting. they bring challenges and tension, and this is what makes them fun. it keeps a couple on their toes and from getting too comfortable.
you want a good balance of easy and harsh aspects.