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No man should be serious with a woman till he is 30 years and above
1. Girlfriends are dream killers. In your 20s you need to spend the next 10 years building a life of freedom. Getting serious with a woman at this time hinders that. It is not because women are evil. It is because women are biologically wired to take from you.
If u are serious when young, you will be under pressure to spend more money. (even if she is not pressuring you). U will get into debts. U will spend less time working on your goals. She will drain u emotionally. She will impose rules on your time. She will cut off your options.
2. You are not emotionally ready. The younger you are, the more susceptible you are to Oneitis and feelings of neediness. We are all familiar with the stupid things young men do when they think they've found a unicorn woman. They put their lives on halt to keep her around.
In your 20s you are not equipped psychologically for strong feelings. When you take a woman and give her authority over your life in a serious fashion you will fuck shit up.
Serious relationships are better for older men as by that age, they're more confident, more chill and much less tolerant of a woman's bullshit. They are also not as emotional as younger men so they are more mature and in control
This is not a thing of sexual experience. Pick up skills largely differ from relationship management skills. There are many guys who've fucked tons of women who still get Needy and stupid when they come across a woman they want to get serious with.
Having lots of sex with different women numbs the feelings around sex, it doesn't numb the feelings around relationships
3. There is absolutely no rush for men to get married. We age better. Assuming we do everything wonderfully, we will be 30, 40 or 50 and still killing it. Sex will still be good. We have more experience. We don't have a biological clock like women do. There is no rush.
My father got involved with my mom in his 20s. Both young and idealistic. The marriage ended horribly in less than a few years. He was messed up for a long time because of it. He took hold of his life again in his 40s and is remarried now with a daughter. My step sister.
You can still get a woman pregnant in your 30s, 40s and 50s. There is no rush.
Be a fucking man. Stop clinging to women cus you're Needy, lazy or you have mommy issues. Grow some balls and get a backbone bro. You don't need anything serious now. Likewise don't lead any woman on with anything serious either. Use your 20s to achieve your goals.
when you're older and financially stronger you can consider serious relationships and marriage if you still want those types of things by then.
4. For godsakes, you can have a lot of sex without needing a girlfriend. This is 2020. Women fuck casually too. Or they engage in little flings here and there.
A) girlfriends are better when you're older because you have had enough time to be financially and emotionally prepared. Older men are better at handling serious relationship palaver compared to younger guys
B) if you are monogamous this is even worse. Don't bullshit me that your babe doesn't have a significant control over your emotions. Doesn't matter how alpha you are. Don't get serious in your 20s.
If you have a serious girlfriend right now and you're less than 30 or 29+, you have already fucked up
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