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a thread from multiple mlm/nblm (mainly mlm) people and their opinions on certain things that pop up (especially with dnf things!)
// this WILL contain talk of nsfw things and fetishizing mlm relationships ! it will NOT be graphic except for one photo, and even that isnt graphic
// this WILL contain talk of nsfw things and fetishizing mlm relationships ! it will NOT be graphic except for one photo, and even that isnt graphic
ok, my first point, my friends n i have talked about this and it feels as if you guys are trying to push the stereotypical heteronormative/comphet shit onto mlm relationships, with things like this n calling george an "uwu soft boy"-
mlm relationships dont have a woman counterpart, they are mlm, two men in a relationship. M E N
also, just bc dream n george are ok with u guys shipping n sexualizing them, doesnt mean the mlm community wants u to say certain things ! no im not being sensitive, ive talked to multiple mlm people, weve discussed this and have come up with our opinions. (yes i am mlm)
1. please stop saying "george is an uwu soft boy who wants to be fucked by his best friend" or whatever, its rly weird to say and is 100% borderline if not IS sexualizing. it makes us SO uncomfortable.
2. im gonna reference the phandom, people shipped them so much that they possibly felt pressured to come out due to rumors of them being gay, that is basically PEER PRESSURE to come out THAT IS SO FUCKING WRONG. yes dt are cishet men, but you never know !
3. please stop pushing stereotypes onto mlm relationships! like, no, nobody is a woman in mlm relationships, they are both men, sure one might be fem but that doesnt change that they are both men (at times it might be nblm but still!)
4. a quote from someone whos helping me with this
"fetishization, where you attracts off of mlm relationships efforts. don't do that shit. no one cares if dteam is fine with it, it's literally disgusting. especially if you are a woman/straight woman"
"fetishization, where you attracts off of mlm relationships efforts. don't do that shit. no one cares if dteam is fine with it, it's literally disgusting. especially if you are a woman/straight woman"
5. another quote
"sexualizing dnf, is basically fetishization, just more focusing on the sexual part where outer gay men is portrait as sexual deviants and closeted gay men are like tempted by the forbidden fruit or something idk"
"sexualizing dnf, is basically fetishization, just more focusing on the sexual part where outer gay men is portrait as sexual deviants and closeted gay men are like tempted by the forbidden fruit or something idk"
6. going off of that last one, if youre just sexualizing them, it feels like ur just sexualizing mlm relationships, we are more then a sex life, coming from someone who is asexual and mlm, it fucking hurts!?!? stop it !!!
7. you can ship dnf for comfort or if you hyperfixate on it its ok! ! its 100% ok! im not asking u to stop that, im asking you to stop doing these other things !
8. non mlm writing smut about mlm relationships ! its rly disgusting tbf, if its just sexualizing, its weird bc as i said, we are just sex lives ! we are people who love to cuddle and hold hands, do anything any other couple would do !
9. saying you want dream and george to get together bc "youd get cute content" just. thats weird? like. rly? how would u feel if someone said this to you?
imma discuss the usage of mlm terms, such as twink.
twink, the definition is "younger gay male", the mlm community on mcyttwt have asked those who are mlm to please refrain from using the term twink ! why? because its in reference to a younger gay male and its
weird ^
tldr; stop making mlm relationships just about sex !!! its weird as fuck !!!!
mlm moots and mlm non-moots feel free to add on !
