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12.23.20. LETTING GO OF RELATIONSHIPS THAT NO LONGER SERVE YOU. Hello, my friends. Sometimes I am asked to deliver a message, and I wonder if it is really for me, or for you. Today's message is undoubtedly for many of us struggling with similar issues.
Getting back to our topic of improving your mental health to recover the wholeness you brought with you to serve on this planet, today I'll discuss relationships. Specifically, I will be discussing the idea of chasing after people and relationships that no longer serve us.
Especially during the holidays, the quality of our relationships seem to be either amplified, whether they are good or bad. This is the reason I am discussing this today. The next week or so will present many challenges for many people in their relationships.
In densities of consciousness above Earth's Third Density, it is easy for us to see and understand that many of our relationships are "contractual," in that we agree to teach each other lessons and play roles in each other's lives.
We enter into many types of contracts with each other, and they aren't all pleasant. Sometimes we agree to be the person our loved one won't be able to tolerate in this incarnation, to help the other person learn to forgive and not judge.
Most of us enter into "birthing contracts," in order to allow another soul the opportunity to incarnate here. We agree to nurture and raise the other soul to help them complete their own Life Agreement.
We enter into marriage contracts, very often for the benefit of both souls, but sometimes for the specific benefit of one, as we serve them in their pursuit of improving and growing as a soul. We also enter into contracts to become friends and teachers, etc..
In densities of consciousness higher than Third Density, people understand that these contracts come to a conclusion, and the purpose of the contract is met and fulfilled. People leave the relationship when it no longer serves the individuals to stay in the relationship.
Admittedly, it is easier to leave relationships peacefully and lovingly when the purpose of the relationship, or contract, is easily understood. Here, it is more difficult, and people tend to be very hard on themselves when a relationship concludes, or they are hard on the other.
Other than the contract to birth and raise children till they can go out into the world on their own, no one is obligated to stay in a relationship that no longer serves them. No one needs to feel like they need to chase, or keep after, a relationship that no longer works.
Even in the case of close familial relationships, even with adult children, sometimes there comes a time when those relationships no longer serve us, and it is better to depart, to sever the relationship, and wish the other love and peace, and separate from the relationship.
Rather than "throwing energy at each other," which is what arguing is referred to in some parts of the Pleiades, it is much better to thank the other party in a no-longer-viable relationship for what they have taught and given us, and part ways.
In my many years as an attorney in this lifetime, I saw some of the most awful behavior I have ever seen at this time of the year, directed at ex spouses over arguments about mutual children. This impacts children negatively for the rest of their lives.
As a lightworker, we have the responsibility to model and teach behavior that resembles what we would see in a Unity Conscious civilization. That means treating all with love, forgiveness, and nonjudgment--even ex spouse and other ex family members.
We understand that free will is the greatest of our Creator, and exercising free will allows us to leave relationships that no longer serve us. That does allow us to infringe upon relationships our children have with their other parent. We need to model the best behavior.
The holidays seem to really emphasize the sad parts of life, as well as the happy times of life. We don't need to keep trying to resurrect relationships that no longer serve us. We don't need to feel completely responsible for failures in relationships.
Especially for those lightworkers who have command positions in the upcoming Ascension Harvest, you may be starting to feel an emotional separation sorts from your adult children and other family members. There is a reason so many are feeling this happen.
You may feeling this type of emotional separation to prevent you from having conflicts of interest in the decisions you will have to make in the future. This is something you agreed to before this lifetime in your Life Agreement and other contracts to serve.
If you feel this happening, and it is not from something that needs to be addressed with forgiveness and reconciliation, know that you are not alone, and there is no reason to fear what is happening. Both parties agreed to this happening before we all incarnated this time.
There will be many new relationships that will come into your life, such as those you are rekindling here with fellow lightworkers, as the focus of your relationships move away from earthly friendships and family members you were serving in the past.
As you continue on in your awakening process we go through every single lifetime on this planet, you may feel more isolated and lonely, as your family members and friends no longer understand you and the changes that are happening with you.
Again, know that you are not alone, that this was all planned, and that you (and others) agreed on it before you incarnated this time. These changes will prove to be positive as the unfold, and you move forward in the tasks you agreed to perform during this Ascension Transition.
Ultimately, the best way to handle changes in any relationship, for any reason, is to model what we are asked by the Law of One to do for each of our fellow beings and ourselves: To love, forgive, and not judge, unconditionally, in wishing each other the best in life.
I can feel that some of you are going through some really hard times right now with relationships that are changing. I want you to know how deeply you are loved by your Creator and by me. You are never alone. Live the Law of One, and everything will work out just fine.
Happy Holidays to everyone. I will return to talk more next week.
