the whole thing about queer flags and the desire to rigidly define sexual/gender identities being colonial in nature is so true and the baby gays really get so mad about it. Like yeah have personal boundaries, but that's very different from creating ideological borders chill bb

my sexuality and gender are shaped by who i want and how i want them, not my trauma or who i need excluded from a club i'm in? Like how someone else experiences their dykeyness just doesnt affect me idgaf

like stop fixating on people you dont wanna fuck when forming the basis of what your sexuality means like wtf