[1] When something is not working, is going bad, or I find myself in a bad situation; or simply sad something is wrong.
Then the first thing I think about is:
“Did I do something wrong?” “Did I made a mistake?”
The reason for that is not that I am an insecure little person. No.
Then the first thing I think about is:
“Did I do something wrong?” “Did I made a mistake?”
The reason for that is not that I am an insecure little person. No.
[2]First and foremost I try to identify what I could have done better
Did I not had enough information?
Did I do a shitty job there?
Did I rush things?
Do I need more practise?
Did I not choose the right material?
Did I misunderstood something?
Do I miss some important knowledge?
Did I not had enough information?
Did I do a shitty job there?
Did I rush things?
Do I need more practise?
Did I not choose the right material?
Did I misunderstood something?
Do I miss some important knowledge?
[3] I do this instinctively.
By doing so you can improve yourself all the time.
You don’t look for excuses or try to push the blame onto others or some circumstances.
One important thing here to notice is, that you bear ALL the responsibility for your actions.
You. Alone.
By doing so you can improve yourself all the time.
You don’t look for excuses or try to push the blame onto others or some circumstances.
One important thing here to notice is, that you bear ALL the responsibility for your actions.
You. Alone.
[4] You listened to some stupid advice and mistakes happened? Guess what? YOU decided to follow said advice and went with it. YOU missed the opportunity to inform yourself better beforehand.
Learn from it.
Don’t push away the responsibility.
Improve and become a better person
Learn from it.
Don’t push away the responsibility.
Improve and become a better person
[5] But hold other accountable to their mistakes as well. They are also responsible for their actions, just like you are for yours..
Through that you actually help them improve.
Thank you for reading!
Through that you actually help them improve.
Thank you for reading!