(1) Don’t assume you’re exempt & view racism as an issue reserved for “bad white people.” That sets the bar horribly low, and it leads to pride and complacency.

(2) It’s too easy to point to the *Karens* of the world and think, “I can’t believe some white people are like that. I’m glad I’m one of the good ones.” It’s too easy to learn about antiracism and think, *they* need to hear that, rather than earnestly applying it yourself.

(3) That’s when you need to check yourself. Don’t excuse yourself as a self-appointed Good White Person; often times, subtle racism is not a product of malice or hate, but a result of apathy.

(4) Instead of: I can’t believe they’re like that.
Ask yourself:
When do I also ____?
What provokes my fragility?
On what occasions do I show apathy, entitlement, prejudice, etc?
How do I display those same characteristics? Do I address them or just hide them?

(5) Ditch the dichotomy of good people versus bad people. Lean into the discomfort of self-assessment. Turn prideful pat-myself-on-the-back moments into humbling, teachable opportunities for growth.