No simping allowed
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
"If a man is in love with a woman, even if she is permissible for him, his heart remains enslaved to her, and she can control him as she wishes, even though outwardly he appears to be her master,
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
"If a man is in love with a woman, even if she is permissible for him, his heart remains enslaved to her, and she can control him as she wishes, even though outwardly he appears to be her master,
because he is her husband; but in fact he is her prisoner and slave, especially if she is aware of his need and love for her. In that case, she will control him like a harsh and oppressive master controls his abject slave who cannot free himself from him.
Rather he is worse off than that, because enslavement of the heart is worse than enslavement of the body".
(Majmoo' al-Fataawa, 10/185)
(Majmoo' al-Fataawa, 10/185)
People are misunderstanding the post its talking about uncontrollable love LOVE must be controlled, and it has to be Halal, such as loving your wife, but once you lose the control, you will leave your duty and always want to do what SHE wants, not what ALLAH wants.
for example, ponder on this short story
once there was an Mu'adin (person who calls people to prayer), and one day he saw a beautiful lady (non muslim), he left the masjid and went to her,
once there was an Mu'adin (person who calls people to prayer), and one day he saw a beautiful lady (non muslim), he left the masjid and went to her,
he loved her so much that he said I will do anything for you, then she said, first leave Islam...he left Islam for her...
can you imagine that? I'm not 100% sure if this story is true but it shows the power of uncontrollable love. And these type of situations can happen
can you imagine that? I'm not 100% sure if this story is true but it shows the power of uncontrollable love. And these type of situations can happen
People are strawmanning me with random points i did not say
I’ll define what i see a simp as so everyone can get a clarfication on what i meant
A simp is someone who listens and does whatever her wife says even if its haram
Muting this post as i’ve clarified everything needed
I’ll define what i see a simp as so everyone can get a clarfication on what i meant
A simp is someone who listens and does whatever her wife says even if its haram
Muting this post as i’ve clarified everything needed
Another example your wife/husband tells you to delay the prayer and spend more time with him/her then obviously that is wrong however someone with uncotrollable love will listen to his/her wife/husband and delay their salah