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Repairing social errors?
Can it really be done?
Repairing social errors?
Can it really be done?
Lots of talk about this and in my diagnostic report it talks about giving me the opportunity to repair social errors but really can you? My experience is rarely. Once youâve been written off socially the show is usually over & itâs best to just slink off and try better next time
I have tried before. Iâve explained and apologised but to be honest it can often just make it worse in my experience and there are some social bells that once rung cannot be unrung.
Sometimes I donât even know what Iâve done and no one tells you either. Itâs against social rules. Justice is silent in the social court 
But you get a feeling like youâve stepped in dog sh*t
But you get a feeling like youâve stepped in dog sh*t
Anyway can you ever really repair something you are very likely to repeat. Not in the exact same way of course but in some other way? Not really I donât think.
I think ppl are much more likely to let kids repair them but not adults. Thatâs because weirdly as an adult you are meant to know better which is totally at odds with what autism is. You donât grow out of it.
Anyway it also doesnât mean that all social problems are errors. No Iâm honest here. Sometimes Iâm capable of just being as asshole like anyone else is. Of course Iâm capable of rudeness too.
Iâm capable of rudeness too.
Only I know really what is what I guess. Though when Iâm rude itâs not usually vague and doesnât insinuate or infer. Itâs direct and unmistakable.
