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sex talk for men — since y’all don’t get included enough in these sex positive convo’s for me.
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don’t be afraid to vocalize your pleasure. moan, cuss, breathe heavy, talk, whatever naturally comes up. tap into your own sexual expression.
being a man doesn’t equal needing to be dominant. allow yourself to explore the riches of sex. kinks, fetishes or vanilla, allow yourself to explore different sexual expressions. play with it.
sensuality is for men too. its about feeling present within your body + senses. this isn’t something only accessible for women. allow yourself to make your self pleasure or sexual encounters an experience. toys are for you too. explore with the way you touch yourself.
use breath work to let that sexual energy flow through your body. plus creating an aesthetically pleasing sensual space isn’t weird at all. you deserve to feel good too and explore the variety of pleasure.
surrender not only to your own pleasure but allow your emotions to be there too. don’t be afraid to go deeper with someone deserving/trusted. when you’re closed off emotionally, it also limits how much more connected you could feel during sex.
and cishet men: loose the homophobic shit — moaning, being submissive, etc is not ‘gay’. you limit yourself so much with this mindset (+ its very dangerous to the gay community vocalizing this, since yall toxic masculinity uses violence to mask your insecurities/discomfort).
