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Having healthy attitudes around sex and sexuality doesn't mean you don't have problems related to sex and sexuality.
For example, multiple people, doctors and psychologists, have said my attitudes around sex are increadibly healthy. However, I have some serious issues personally.
For example, multiple people, doctors and psychologists, have said my attitudes around sex are increadibly healthy. However, I have some serious issues personally.
I can't have casual sex (unless it's transactional and professional), even though I want to be able to. It's something drilled into me by society and family that I can't get by even though I don't think there's a damn thing wrong with casual sex and/or promiscuity.
Another thing, I'm legitimately intimidated by genitals. Penis or vulva, both bother me seriously though sadly it's the vulva that I have the biggest issue with. It's why I say I'm Panromantic but polysexual... I can love and be attracted to anyone, but if you have a vulva I just
Can't look or touch. I feel it's insanely unfair to attempt to have sex with someone and then refuse to interact with their genitals. Sure sex doesn't have to include genitals, but let's be real here... It usually does.
My aversion to vulvas does indeed include my own.
My aversion to vulvas does indeed include my own.
Oh, and I can't be on top. The one exception might be pegging someone... But I've not had the chance to try so maybe not.
Luckily so far partners have been cool about the fact I won't even try things like cowgirl... But it does bother me.
Luckily so far partners have been cool about the fact I won't even try things like cowgirl... But it does bother me.
I really want to see a sex therapist and try hash this shit out... But bitch Thats expensive!
