Y'all you can love the church and be highly critical of it at the same time. As a matter of fact, your love of it should drive you to be critical of it.

I get confused why people feel being critical of the church means you hate the church.

Calling for a space that you dwell in to be better is love. Also, acknowledging that the space/institution that you are apart of has been hurtful to groups of people is love because....

You are holding what you love accountable.

What is frustrating within Christiandom is we do not allow for duality of feelings, emotions and thought. This has to change for the church to live up to everything she can be.